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Buying the Hollywood myth

I don’t watch TV as much as I used to. I have never been a fan of soaps nor reality shows – especially the fame and talent variety – which seem to dominate the schedules. In fact I can say

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aScent of man

The manosphere is constantly encouraging us to improve ourselves. We evolve through life experience and through relationships over time (Proverbs 27:17 – “As Iron sharpens Iron, so one man sharpens another”). These facilitate organic,  evolutionary changes. Reflecting on my married

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Game works

It really does! If it can work for me it can for anyone. I am no looker, I’m middle aged, not ripped (BMI of 26) but I’m trying to make the best of what I have. Reading and learning about

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The tin hat parable

When I was working for a large American IT company some years back, we got  a new Boss. He was a Texan, newly promoted to come over and “run” Europe. We found out a couple of things very fast: This

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the coming financial apocalypse…

As I continue to think about and plan my future, and about money. I’m forming a more coherent vision. There are dangers ahead. Some I can control. Some not. In my recent reading and rumination on the content, I offer

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Thoughts on divorce

I’m conflicted, perhaps as conflicted as I have ever been. Part of me wants the whole divorce thing to be over so I can get on with my life without all the sniping & rubbish that is currently going on.

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Roadtrip – part 2 – aftermath

So … a good weekend away with the guys. I won’t reveal many of the details, even though this blog is anonymous. Well, as much as the internet allows us to be. The rule is “what goes on tour stays

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